Introduction
This is obviously an appropriate week to discuss the halachos regarding the agony we are to feel when seeing the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash. I want to note that, for various well-meaning but incorrect reasons, people are very lenient about these laws. However, it is clear from the Gemara and the halachic authorities that we are to feel tremendous anguish when seeing the destruction of our Beis Hamikdash area and to express this agony by tearing keriah on a garment that we are wearing at the time. Thus, various approaches, such as visiting the Kosel on erev Shabbos or “selling your clothes” to someone else, are probably all invalid (Shu”t Teshuvos Vehanhagos 1:334; Orchos Rabbeinu #2 page 149; Makom Hamikdash page 7) and certainly do not reflect the proper hashkafah.
The Gemara (Mo’eid Katan 26a) states: Someone who rends his clothes because of the passing of his father, mother, his rebbe who taught him Torah, the king of Klal Yisrael, the head of the beis din or upon hearing other bad tidings — including hearing someone curse Hashem or he observed a sefer Torah being burned or he saw the destroyed cities of Yehudah, the Beis Hamikdash, or Yerushalayim — may not reweave the garment afterward to mend it (see Hagahos Maimaniyos, Hilchos Aveil 9:3). Improperly stitching or pinning the garment closed afterward is permitted(Rambam, Hilchos Aveil 9:3). A woman should pin her torn garment closed (Mo’eid Katan 22b; Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh Deah 340:15).
From this Gemara, the Rishonim and poskim derive the obligation to tear one’s garments upon seeing the destroyed cities of Yehudah, Yerushalayim or the Beis Hamikdash (Rambam, Hilchos Ta’anis 5:16; Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 561). As is evident from the Gemara and the Rambam, the point of tearing one’s garments over the calamity of the destruction is to express one’s sorrow over these tragic events.
The laws of keriah apply equally to men and women, the only distinction being that a woman should tear in a tzeniyus way (Mo’eid Katan 22b; Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh Deah 340:11; Shach 340:22). Most authorities rule that a child under bar or bas mitzvah does not tear keriah upon observing the site of the Beis Hamikdash.
Keriah must be performed while standing (Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh Deah 340:1). The rending should be on the front of the garment and from the top, near the collar, downward. The torn area should be a tefach (Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh Deah, 340:3), about three inches long.
How many garments does one tear?
Germane to one who tears keriah for the loss of a close relative, the Gemara lists several halachic stringencies that apply when tearing keriah for the loss of a parent that do not apply when tearing keriah for other relatives. When tearing keriah for the loss of a parent, the tearing must be done by hand and includes a requirement to tear any garment worn at the time that is included in the laws of keriah, regardless as to how many one is wearing (Mo’eid Katan 22b). As we will see shortly, this excludes both undergarments and coats and similar outer garments. After the loss of any other relative, one tears only one garment, and it may be torn by using a scissors or knife. We will soon explain which garments are excluded and what is the halacha germane to someone tearing his garment because he sees the Beis Hamikdash grounds.
There is no requirement to be wearing many garments when tearing keriah for a parent, but any garment that qualifies for the rules of keriah (see below) that is worn at the time must be torn.
Which garment does one tear?
Which garment is one required to tear upon seeing the destroyed remnants of the Beis Hamikdash? Prior to answering this question, I need to provide some background, regarding the laws of rending keriah for the loss of a close relative. Based on the descriptions provided by Chazal, the rishonim explain that there is no requirement to tear garments worn next to the body that are meant to “absorb perspiration.” Nor is there a requirement to tear garments that are worn only outside the house, such as a coat, but something worn both indoors and outdoors must be rent (Aruch Hashulchan, Yoreh Deah 340:9).
In practical halacha, there is a dispute among the early poskim which garment to tear for the loss of a close relative (Yoreh Deah 340:10 with Taz and Nekudos Hakesef). The common practice among Ashkenazim in America is to tear keriah on a jacket, whereas the common practice in Eretz Yisrael is to tear keriah on a shirt.
Common custom is that, upon losing a parent, one tears keriah on the left side of a garment, and the halacha requires that it be from the top of the garment downward. The left side is torn, in the case of a parent, because of the reference of Chazal that, in this instance, one should tear until he “reveals his heart,” and the heart is on the left side.
Custom is that someone who lost a different relative tears keriah on the right side of the garment. Someone who tore on the right side for a parent or on the left side for someone other than a parent has fulfilled the mitzvah and should not make another tear, provided he tore the front part of the garment (Rema, Yoreh Deah, 340:2).
How to tear for the Beis Hamikdash
Someone should feel as emotional about the loss of our Beis Hamikdash as he feels about the loss of a parent, and, therefore, should tear “until he reveals his heart,” meaning, on his left side. How many garments must he tear?
This is the subject of a dispute among the rishonim. The Rambam (Hilchos Ta’anis, 5:17) understands that, since the Gemara rules that the tearing performed for a parent and for the Beis Hamikdash may never be repaired, we see that tearing for the Beis Hamikdash is considered the more severe type of tearing and should therefore be on all his garments. In the Rambam’s opinion, just as someone tearing keriah upon the loss of a parent is required to tear his jacket, his shirt and any other garments that he might be wearing; someone tearing because of loss of the Beis Hamikdash should tear all the garments he is wearing at the time – perhaps even his jacket, sweater and shirt.
On the other hand, the Ra’avad (ad loc.) and other rishonim (Magid Mishnah ad loc.) rule that, although the tear rended because of the Beis Hamikdash can never be repaired, there is no requirement to tear all his garments, only one. Although the Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chayim 561:4) concludes like the stringent opinion of the Rambam to tear all the garments being worn, and specifically only by hand, the accepted practice is to tear only one garment, usually a shirt, and to allow use of an instrument to make the tear (Ir Hakodesh Vehamikdash, Volume 3, 17:1.1; Shu”t Minchas Shlomo 1:73).
The custom is to tear a shirt and, as mentioned above, to tear it on his left side, from the collar area of the shirt downward one tefach.
Yerushalayim today
Above, we quoted the Gemara that requires tearing keriah when seeing cities in Yehudah that are destroyed and when seeing Yerushalayim. The poskim rule that this does not refer to the newer areas of Yerushalayim, which were not destroyed at the time of the churban (see also Sha’arei Teshuvah 561:1).
The more recent authorities dispute whether seeing Yerushalayim nowadays, when the city is, thank G-d, rebuilt with a large Jewish population, still requires tearing keriah. Some contend that since today there is a sizable Jewish population in Yerushalayim, one does not need to tear keriah when seeing the city (Shu”t Igros Moshe, Orach Chaim 5:37), whereas others contend that, since the city is still not in the ideal way the Torah would like it to be, we should still tear keriah upon seeing it (Shu”t Minchas Shlomo, 1:73; Shu”t Shevet Halevi, 7:78).
The common custom is not to tear upon seeing Yerushalayim (Shu”t Igros Moshe, Orach Chaim 5:37).
Upon seeing the place where the Beis Hamikdash once stood, everyone agrees that there is an obligation to tear one’s clothes (Shu”t Igros Moshe, Orach Chaim 4:70:11; 5:37). When we speak about the obligation to tear one’s clothes upon seeing the place of the Beis Hamikdash, what does one have to see? Does one have to see the actual ground where the Beis Hamikdash stood on Har Habayis, also called Har Hamoriah, the top of the mountain where the Beis Hamikdash stood? Perhaps it is sufficient to see the mosque or the Dome of the Rock that stands where the Beis Hamikdash once stood? Or is it sufficient just to see the Kosel, which is the wall surrounding the Har Habayis (Makom Hamikdash page 6)?
There are poskim who hold that tearing keriah opposite the Kosel fulfills the mitzvah (Shu”t Igros Moshe, Orach Chayim 4:70:11; Halichos Shlomo, Tefillah, chap. 16, footnote #15; see Makom Hamikdash page 6). However, this matter is disputed, since the Kosel is the wall surrounding the Har Habayis, the top of Mount Moriah, and is not where the Beis Hamikdash stood. Although Har Habayis has kedusha, and the gedolim of previous generations across the hashkafic spectrum banned entering the Har Habayis until we again have ashes of the parah adumah, many poskim rule that tearing keriah is for seeing the area of the Beis Hamikdash itself or signs of its destruction.
Some authorities contend that it is preferable to see the actual floor of the Har Habayis before tearing. This involves finding a high enough point from which he can see over the walls surrounding Har Habayis, such as from parts of Har Hazeisim, Har Hatzofim, or perhaps a rooftop within the Old City (Shu”t Teshuvos Vehanhagos, 1:331 in the name of the Brisker Rav). However, most authorities rule that seeing the mosque or the Dome of the Rock is sufficient. After all, the Gemara states that something attached to the ground is considered like the ground itself (see Shabbos 81a; Gittin 39a). Therefore, since both the mosque and the Dome of the Rock standing on Har HaBayis are connected to the ground, seeing either of them is the equivalent to seeing the ground itself (Zichron Betzalel 38:2). More importantly, there is perhaps no greater indication of the churban than seeing a mosque on the site where the Beis Hamikdash should be (Sefer Eretz Yisrael; Halichos Shlomo, Tefillah, chap. 16, footnote #15).
Standing
As mentioned above, keriah must be made while standing (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 561:4), unless the person is physically unable to stand. Someone who tore his garment while sitting or while leaning on something with enough weight that he would fall if it was removed suddenly, has not fulfilled the mitzvah of keriah and must tear again. Therefore, someone who sees the area where the Beis Hamikdash once stood or something constructed on its site while riding in a car or a bus should not tear while seated. If he can, he should get out of the vehicle and tear.
The proper procedure
The Bach (Orach Chayim 561) cites the following: Someone who enters Yerushalayim and sees where the Beis Hamikdash stood is required to bow facing its direction, tear his clothes, cry, moan, mourn and feel sorrow over the the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash — crying in a bitter way and reciting first the 79th chapter of Tehillim describing how the gentiles entered, contaminated and destroyed Hashem’s holy sanctuary. When tearing keriah, he should recite the words, baruch Dayan ha’emes, without the Name of Hashem. He then recites several pesukim: Devarim 32:4; Nechemiah 9:33; Eicha 2:9. Other sefarim present other, similar procedures.
The Bach then explains that the recital of this passage and these pesukim is so that it is obvious why he is rending his clothes. Although the ruling that someone cry and moan about the churban is not mentioned in the Gemara specifically in reference to seeing the destroyed location of the Beis Hamikdash, the Bach notes that common sense dictates that one act as if his loved one lies dead in front of him. This idea is implied by the pasuk in Yirmiyahu (41:5).
Thirty days
Someone who saw the place where the Beis Hamikdash once stood and tore keriah is not required to tear keriah again, until thirty days have passed since the last time that he saw it (see Yerushalmi, Brachos 9:2; Rambam, Hilchos Ta’anis 5:18). The Magen Avraham (561:6) notes that someone born in Yerushalayim may never be required to tear keri’ah for the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash, if he saw the area of the churban within 30 days before turning bar mitzvah, and then returns to it within every thirty days.
Second visit
Someone who did not tear his garment upon seeing the churban hamikdash area, either because he was unaware of the halacha or because he was unable to (such as, it was Shabbos) and revisits the area within thirty days, must he tear now, since he did not tear the first time? This question is disputed by the poskim. Rav Moshe Feinstein maintains that he must tear his garment at his next visit (Shu”t Igros Moshe, Yoreh Deah 3:52:4), whereas Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach contends that he is exempt (Shu”t Minchas Shlomo, 1:73) and notes that this is the accepted practice.
Someone who arrives at the Kosel dressed for Shabbos, and will not have anything else appropriate to wear on Shabbos, is exempt from tearing (Shu”t Igros Moshe, Yoreh Deah 3:52:4 and Orach Chaim 5:37; Shu”t Minchas Shlomo,1:73).
Chol Hamo’eid
Does someone who sees the Beis Hamikdash area on chol hamo’eid tear keriah? Although the halacha implies that there is an obligation to tear even on chol hamo’eid, the minhag is to follow the opinions of the rishonim that one does not tear on those days (Shu”t Minchas Shlomo, 1:73).
Yerushalayim residents
Some authorities contend that Yerushalayim residents do not need to tear again, even if they did not see the place of the churban for thirty days (Birkei Yosef, Orach Chayim 561:2; Sha’arei Teshuvah 561). This is the prevailing practice, although there is much discussion among late authorities whether it is halachically correct (Sha’arei Teshuvah 561; Shu”t Shevet Halevi 7:78; Shu”t Divrei Yetziv 1:89; Zichron Betzalel #38).
I have been told that Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach explained the reason why the minhag is not to tear is because a person living in Yerushalayim who does not come to the Kosel at least once a month indicates that he does not feel the pain of the churban, and there is no point for him to tear his clothes.
Meat and wine
The Mishnah Berurah (561:4) rules that the first time someone tears keriah for seeing the destroyed Beis Hamikdash, it is proper that he not eat meat or drink wine that day.
Conclusion
The prophet Yeshaya declared: “Exult with Yerushalayim and rejoice over her, all those who love her. Rejoice with her rejoicing all those who mourned over her” (Yeshaya 66:10). “From here we see,” says the Gemara, “that whoever mourns over Yerushalayim will merit to see her happiness, and whoever does not mourn over Yerushalayim will not merit to see her happiness” (Ta’anis 30b).
The Midrash (Midrash Rabbah, Shemos 15:21) teaches that Hashem will bring forth ten new creations in the era of Moshiach:
1. He will endow the world with a new light.
2. Hashem will create a spring in Yerushalayim whose waters will heal all illness.
3. He will create trees that will produce new fruits every month that cure disease.
4. All the cities of Eretz Yisrael will be rebuilt, including even Sodom and Amora.
5. Hashem will rebuild Yerushalayim with glowing sapphire stone. It will attract all the nations of the world to come and marvel at the beauty of the city.
6. The cow and the bear will graze together, and their young will play together (see Yeshaya 11:7). The commentaries dispute whether this pasuk is meant to be understood literally or as a parable for the nations of the earth.
7. Hashem will make a covenant with all the creatures of the world and banish all weapons and warfare (see Hoshea 2:20).
8. There will be no more crying in the city of Yerushalayim.
9. Death will perish forever.
10. Everyone will be joyful, and there will be an end to all sighing and worry.
May we all merit seeing these miracles speedily and in our days.
